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Hell or High Water – A Short Film

A few days ago, a friend sent me a YouTube link to this Nigerian gay-themed short film titled, Hell or High water  presented by The Initiative for Equal Rights (TIERs), a Nigeria based NGO. Though the film is only 30 minutes long and void of the usual Nigerian gay stereotype characterisation, it is quite incisive, emotional… Continue reading Hell or High Water – A Short Film

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Crap I Get On Grindr XI

Not really sure what to say here. Would I be called a racist if I say "no" to his "Asian" question?  I don't agree with the term "Sexual racism" (please click here for my thoughts), but let's say I did for a minute, shouldn't  questions like "Are you into Asians?" be abhorrent to those who say… Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr XI

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How Keredim Got His Groove Back…..Almost

He was dark skinned, handsome, had an athletic build and bountiful pert rump you just wanted to marinate in spices, grill and make it last for days.

Coming Out · Nigeria · Sex · Social Commentary · Tolerance

Conversation With The Barber III

Previous haircuts - Conversation I & Conversation II Tired of looking like I was auditioning for the title role in the sequel of Django and also tired of my mother thinking I was heading to Turkey to cross the border into Syria, the other week, I decided to have a long overdue haircut and a… Continue reading Conversation With The Barber III

Religion · Social Commentary · Tolerance

Pastor Steven Anderson – What About The Children?

This morning on Twitter, I came across this video of Pastor Steven Anderson, blasting the South African Home Affairs Minister Malusi Gigaba, for wanting to ban him from entering South Africa. The Pastor who is  known for his homophobic hate speeches, is due to visit South Africa in a few weeks to spread the gospel. An… Continue reading Pastor Steven Anderson – What About The Children?

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Brexit: The result

Woke up this morning. Saw the news on TV I am speechless. What the Fuck just happened!?! Britain Voted to leave the EU??!! Cameron resigns?!?! I am in shock. Feels like I have been hit by a truck. I am incontinent incandescent with rage. ”Why Lord, Why hast thou forsaken me? Why have You reduced the… Continue reading Brexit: The result

Europe · Social Commentary

Brexit: The Vote

"I'm in" That reminds me of what I uttered, after trying unsuccessfully for 15 minutes to get into a nice tight bubble butt using different positions . Finally we assumed the....I digress.... This is not what this post is about. I have cast my vote in the referendum. You have till 2000BST to do your… Continue reading Brexit: The Vote

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Crap I Get on Grindr VI

Location : Eden Beach, Torremilinos, Spain. Scores of Spanish men on the beach and I get this from Billy Bob Just my luck.🚶🏿🚶🏿🚶🏿

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Brexit – A Case For Bubble Butts

Incase you haven't heard, the United Kingdom will be voting in a referendum on June 23rd to decide whether to leave the European Union (EU) or to stay. This has been aptly termed “Brexit” to leave or "Bremain" to stay. What brought this on? Since Britain joined the EU back in 1973, dissenting voices have always… Continue reading Brexit – A Case For Bubble Butts

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The Prayer

So its my last day in my village, near Owerri, Nigeria. After four days, no kinsman or woman has asked me the dreaded marriage question.  I thought I had a lucky escape, until I popped into an Aunt's shop to tell her I would be leaving the tomorrow morning and to give her some money.… Continue reading The Prayer