It was my birthday a few months ago, but I forgot to wish myself a Happy Birthday in the third person on social media, as people are wont to do these days. By the time I remembered it was in my opinion, too late to "thank people for their kind messages and wishes", even though… Continue reading The forgetful Daddy
Category: Grindr
Sex in Lagos – The Revisit
The last 2 years I have had a very nonchalant attitude towards meeting anyone on Grindr and other hook up apps. However, as a hangover from the heady years when for me getting laid was like an Olympic sport and the body count equated to winning Olympic medals, I still find myself habitually going on them to… Continue reading Sex in Lagos – The Revisit
Sex Writer’s Block
I have writer’s block. I start writing something and either my mind goes blank, or I find some obscure movie to watch on Netflix, Amazon Prime or Disney plus. This is what happens when you base 95% of your blog content on your sexcapades and you don’t factor in the impact of a global pandemic.… Continue reading Sex Writer’s Block
Man In The Mirror
It has been a while. It has been a year. I am not sure why it has taken me so long to update the blog with a new post, but I think I will put down to the global COVID pandemic situation and the ensuing lockdowns. I think it has impacted me mentally more than… Continue reading Man In The Mirror
Random Drivel
**This is just some inane drivel which like most of my posts isn't intended to make sense** I have given up all social media including Twitter, Facebook, Grindr and Scruff for lent. I was motivated by the Pope’s message on Ash Wednesday in which he encouraged Catholics to give up internet trolling and insulting others… Continue reading Random Drivel
Crap I Get On Grindr – XIV – Kindr Edition
It’s a wintry Sunday afternoon. I am restless as a result of boredom. I scan my various social media feeds, looking for something to outrage interest me. The process compounds my boredom even more, until I reach back to the past and find something on YouTube. In the summer of 2018, Grindr launched a YouTube… Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr – XIV – Kindr Edition
Crap I Get On Grindr – XIII – Lagos Edition
Got into Lagos last week, switched on Scruff and a warning popped up. Warning unheeded and most days bored while stuck in traffic in sweltering heat in an Uber/Taxify taxi with air conditioning blowing hot air, I browsed Grindr (which by the way doesn't have a similar warning) and picked up a life few lessons along… Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr – XIII – Lagos Edition
Crap I Get On Grindr – XII – Lost In Translation
So the other day someone hit me up on Grindr...... I did my due diligence to see if his profile checks out..... He didn't like Unsafe sex & drugs; Presumably likes rub downs; Not sure what's happening with Instagram and the last one....WTF?!!? He doesn't like Black Americans??? I always say to people who get… Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr – XII – Lost In Translation
Crap I Get On Grindr – XI
I honestly can't remember the last time in the past 12 months a Grindr conversation in London, has converted into a shag for me. I am largely to blame for this. Increasingly I am finding Grindr to be an endless source of mirth (second only to the current progress of Brexit negotiations with the EU) rather… Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr – XI
Crap I Get On Grindr X – Job Hunter
I have come across some profiles in recent times, that you would be forgiven for thinking that Grindr was a job app like LinkedIn rather than a hook up app. And the way I flip between apps on my iPad and being a certified simpleton, one of these days I think I just might respond… Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr X – Job Hunter
Sagba Chronicles 