Sex In Lagos

Last June I took a trip to Lagos to attend a family event. Hooking up on trips outside UK is something I love doing just as much as I love sampling the local cuisine. Because of the average Nigerian’s attitude towards homosexuality, during the trip I mostly reconnected with the food prepared the way they … Continue reading Sex In Lagos

Crap I Get On Grindr – XIII – Lagos Edition

Got into Lagos last week, switched on Scruff and a warning popped up. Warning unheeded and most days bored while stuck in traffic in sweltering heat in an Uber/Taxify taxi with air conditioning blowing hot air, I browsed Grindr (which by the way doesn't have a similar warning) and picked up a life few lessons along … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr – XIII – Lagos Edition

London Gay Pride 2018

London Gay Pride took place last weekend and I went along with a friend to watch the parade. She was visiting from Nigeria and watching a gay pride event is on her bucket list. So I obliged her. Over 300 float and groups marched/danced/twirled/sashayed along the route and about 1 million people came to watch … Continue reading London Gay Pride 2018

Dear Nigerian Homophobe

As life-long members of the World Federation of Homophobes (WFH) – a federation which has been in existence for almost as long as homosexuals have been, I feel your opinions are not being respected enough by other members of the WFH during your daily knees up. Here are a few areas I think you could … Continue reading Dear Nigerian Homophobe

My Blatino Oasis 2017 (NSFW)

I finally got my ass over to Palm Springs, California for the Blatino oasis gay event late last month. Something I had been thinking of doing for the last 6 years but couldn't, due to (in no particular order) work commitments, personal finances, weddings and a morbid fear of being used for target practice by a … Continue reading My Blatino Oasis 2017 (NSFW)

Sex In Dubai

A pop up message appeared on Scruff; warning about the illegality of same sex sexual intercourse in the UAE, The legal penalty subject (14 years in Prison) and that offenders were subject to Islamic laws (It wasn’t clear what that meant, but I reckon as a minimum would involve lashes and not of the S&M kind. I am thinking “12 years A slave”)

The Prayer II – Finding Jesus

So it’s Christmas day and I see a missed call from my aunt. (The same one who prayed for a wife for me in the Prayer click here). I had sent her some cash for Christmas, earlier in the month and half expected her to call me to acknowledge receipt. In fairness I did try … Continue reading The Prayer II – Finding Jesus

Sex In Torremolinos

It was the week before the unfortunate Brexit vote. I thought I’d visit mainland Europe, just in case the UK did the stupid thing and shot themselves in the foot. Alas they did. (Shit! I need to get to Mexico before November 28th). So I took a five-day break in Torremolinos in Andalucía, Spain. I … Continue reading Sex In Torremolinos

Crap I Get On Grindr X – A Greek Tragedy

My last entry “Crap I Get On Grindr IX” (click here) took place last week,while on a short break on the Greek Island of  Mykonos, where someone (let’s name him Stalker)  tracked me down to my Hotel. The way I figure it, Stalker liked my profile on Grindr and messaged me a few times. When … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr X – A Greek Tragedy