Comedy · Grindr · Sauna · Sex

Crap I Get On Grindr V

  Not sure what's going on, but I have noticed that an increasing number of men on Grindr are featuring women in their profiles and in pictures they send during conversations. The pictures are usually selfies poses of the guy and a female friend, both young (probably University students) taken at various locations. Increasingly, I get… Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr V

Comedy · Coming Out · Nigeria · Sex

Mum’s Soup

Thought I'd share this e-mail from my cousin Nduka, a few days ago…… Cousin Kere, how are you? I see you are in Lagos and it is turning into quite the event. I can’t wait for you to supply details when you get back to London. Meanwhile, while you were away I think I have… Continue reading Mum’s Soup

Marriage · Nigeria · Prayer · Sex · Social Commentary

The Prayer

So its my last day in my village, near Owerri, Nigeria. After four days, no kinsman or woman has asked me the dreaded marriage question.  I thought I had a lucky escape, until I popped into an Aunt's shop to tell her I would be leaving the tomorrow morning and to give her some money.… Continue reading The Prayer


You’ve Been Warned.

Was going to file this under the "Crap I Get On Grindr.." series but it didn't feel right.  So there I was minding my own business, twiddling my thumbs, waiting for my flight to Owerri from Lagos Airport in Nigeria, when I logged on to Scruff to check out the local you do! Then… Continue reading You’ve Been Warned.