Homophobia · Social Commentary · Tolerance

Homophobia – It Is What It Is

You scroll through your Twitter feed, and you come across a tweet “Homophobia hurts everyone in the long run”. It is one of those annoying esoteric tweets without any discernible context, where the author expects his myriad of followers to know what he is tweeting about. And if they don’t, they are expected to massage… Continue reading Homophobia – It Is What It Is

Grindr · Homophobia · Lagos · Nigeria · Sex · Social Commentary · Travel

Sex in Lagos – The Revisit

The last 2 years I have had a very nonchalant attitude towards meeting anyone on Grindr and other hook up apps. However, as a hangover from the heady years when for me getting laid was like an Olympic sport and the body count equated to winning Olympic medals, I still find myself habitually going on them to… Continue reading Sex in Lagos – The Revisit

Comedy · Sex · Social Commentary

Sex Writer’s Block – The Chains of Amistad

Still no sex being had, so nothing exciting to write home about.   But it appears my writer’s block, like an itchy butt rash seems to be clearing up .  How best to describe my writer’s block? Imagine for a second an idea undergoes the same processing food does when it goes through the alimentary canal… Continue reading Sex Writer’s Block – The Chains of Amistad

Comedy · Grindr · London · Pride · Sex · Social Commentary

Sex Writer’s Block

I have writer’s block.  I start writing something and either my mind goes blank, or I find some obscure movie to watch on Netflix, Amazon Prime or Disney plus. This is what happens when you base 95% of your blog content on your sexcapades and you don’t factor in the impact of a global pandemic.… Continue reading Sex Writer’s Block

Gay websites · Grindr · London · Social Commentary · Tolerance

Man In The Mirror

It has been a while. It has been a year. I am not sure why it has taken me so long to update the blog with a new post, but I think I will put down to the global COVID pandemic situation and the ensuing lockdowns. I think it has impacted me mentally more than… Continue reading Man In The Mirror

London · Sex · Social Commentary

Even More Random Drivel

It is summer here in the UK and for some humans, it becomes uncomfortable to breathe. At this time hay fever sufferers are hit hard with symptoms such as - frequent sneezing, runny/blocked nose, watery eyes and cough - to mention a few, caused by high pollen count in the air. The pollen is so… Continue reading Even More Random Drivel

Facebook · London · Sex · Social Commentary

More Random Drivel

**Some more inane drivel, (made even worse by being stuck indoors on account of the Coronavirus lockdown), which like most of my posts isn't intended to make sense** In my last post, I said I would bore regale you with how I am managing to remain unplugged from social media & Grindr for lent and under… Continue reading More Random Drivel

Facebook · Grindr · Sex · Social Commentary

Random Drivel

**This is just some inane drivel which like most of my posts isn't intended to make sense** I have given up all social media including Twitter, Facebook, Grindr and Scruff for lent. I was motivated by the Pope’s message on Ash Wednesday in which he encouraged Catholics to give up internet trolling and insulting others… Continue reading Random Drivel

Grindr · Sex · Social Commentary · Trolls

Crap I Get On Grindr – XIV – Kindr Edition

It’s a wintry Sunday afternoon. I am restless as a result of boredom. I scan my various social media feeds, looking for something to outrage interest me. The process compounds my boredom even more, until I reach back to the past and find something on YouTube. In the summer of 2018, Grindr launched a YouTube… Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr – XIV – Kindr Edition

Marriage · Nigeria · Sex · Social Commentary · Tolerance

Nigeria Recognises Same Sex Marriage

While planning a quick getaway Kasie Anyawu, realised his Nigerian passport was due to expire a few weeks after his wedding day and had to be renewed. Weeks later after the wedding, he set about completing the online application form for his passport renewal. Not quite used to being married, when it came to answering… Continue reading Nigeria Recognises Same Sex Marriage