Crap I Get On Grindr XI

Not really sure what to say here. Would I be called a racist if I say "no" to his "Asian" question?  I don't agree with the term "Sexual racism" (please click here for my thoughts), but let's say I did for a minute, shouldn't  questions like "Are you into Asians?" be abhorrent to those who say … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr XI

Mean Queens: The Sad, Sad Case of Internet Trolls

A few months ago, I blogged here that I couldn’t wait for the new dislike button on Facebook, so that I can start disliking comments and pictures thus effectively becoming a Facebook troll . Well that dream is out the proverbial window now that Facebook have decided against the button. Secretly I am glad they reached … Continue reading Mean Queens: The Sad, Sad Case of Internet Trolls

To PrEP or Not to PrEP?

Last September I was on holiday in Los Angeles and as usual whenever I visit a new city, I went sight seeing during the day and cruised the local talent at night. I logged onto the gay hook up apps and websites to check out the local talent. Being LA - Land of Hollywood where … Continue reading To PrEP or Not to PrEP?

Crap I Get On Grindr

I like good personal hygiene. I like my hookups showered and prepared before we meet up. I expressed my sentiments about douching here in a previous post. Unfortunately not all bottom guys I hookup with share the same sentiments and this continues to baffle me. Consequently, during chats on whatever hookup site or app I am on … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr

A Case (And Maybe A Place) For Russell Tovey

Hey Russell, I see you had a spot of bother last week regarding your comment about effeminate (fem) gay men. Every fem and their Chihuahua gave their 140-character text opinion on Twitter and some wrote articles vilifying and blaming you and other straight-acting (Masc) guys, for everything wrong with the entire world. You apologised and … Continue reading A Case (And Maybe A Place) For Russell Tovey

My Transition From Top to Bottom Position

A friend of mine commented that all I tend to share are shag stories about me being the top and never the bottom. A fair comment which I have sought to address a few times. Like most tops out there, I am versatile when I am in a relationship. (Yes I have been in relationships!!). … Continue reading My Transition From Top to Bottom Position

The Joys of Sober sex

Party and Play  (PnP) is a phenomenon of recreational drug users having sex with each other or a group. It can also be referred to as Chemsex.  In previous posts I have blamed Chemsex for inhibiting any decent online hook ups for me, as I have a zero – tolerance attitude to drugs. A bit … Continue reading The Joys of Sober sex

Shag-fish

Catfish.  A guy Nev, starts an online relationship with an attractive lady called Megan on Facebook. Feelings begin to develop between Nev and Megan. As a token of affection Megan sends Nev MP3 song covers, which Nev subsequently discovers are performances from YouTube. This is just one of the many distortions from Megan which Nev discovers that prompts him to seek … Continue reading Shag-fish