Catfish.  A guy Nev, starts an online relationship with an attractive lady called Megan on Facebook. Feelings begin to develop between Nev and Megan. As a token of affection Megan sends Nev MP3 song covers, which Nev subsequently discovers are performances from YouTube. This is just one of the many distortions from Megan which Nev discovers that prompts him to seek … Continue reading Shag-fish

When Does an FB become a BF?

It has been about 3 weeks into lent and my self-imposed abstinence from sex has been going well.  I thought I would be having countless cold showers everyday to quell my urges but this has not been the case. Which is just as well considering the arctic temperature we have been having in England, despite … Continue reading When Does an FB become a BF?

Black, Gay, 40 and fabulous.

Over the next few months some of my gay homies will be hitting the big 4-0.... A few nice words from me. Gayomies, So it’s the big 4-0 today, huh? In gay terms, it is the dreaded age when everything starts to sag, wrinkles start appearing on your face and grey hairs make their debut.  … Continue reading Black, Gay, 40 and fabulous.


I really do not consider myself  “muscled”. My weight and body definition varies depending on the amount of cakes I have consumed the previous week.  I go the gym a fair amount and from past posts, you would have perceived that I like me some muscle in bed. Yes, I love muscled guys. I like … Continue reading MUSCLE BASHING


I watched Prometheus the other week and thoroughly enjoyed it. I thought it was well made, had a good story line and good actors. But I was a bit perplexed about the opening scene, where some spaceship took off leaving the well-muscled, near-butt naked Engineer behind. I reckon his mates were jealous, because he had … Continue reading Prick-metheus

A Typical Sunday In the Life Of An Online Sex Addict.

Sunday: 08:00. I wake up and reach for my Iphone and check Grindr. I fell asleep last night still logged on. There are 23 messages waiting for me. I go through them. There are messages from guys coming back from clubs. All probably high on something. I respond to a few that are worth shagging. … Continue reading A Typical Sunday In the Life Of An Online Sex Addict.