The last 2 years I have had a very nonchalant attitude towards meeting anyone on Grindr and other hook up apps. However, as a hangover from the heady years when for me getting laid was like an Olympic sport and the body count equated to winning Olympic medals, I still find myself habitually going on them to … Continue reading Sex in Lagos – The Revisit
Still no sex being had, so nothing exciting to write home about. But it appears my writer’s block, like an itchy butt rash seems to be clearing up . How best to describe my writer’s block? Imagine for a second an idea undergoes the same processing food does when it goes through the alimentary canal … Continue reading Sex Writer’s Block – The Chains of Amistad
I have writer’s block. I start writing something and either my mind goes blank, or I find some obscure movie to watch on Netflix, Amazon Prime or Disney plus. This is what happens when you base 95% of your blog content on your sexcapades and you don’t factor in the impact of a global pandemic. … Continue reading Sex Writer’s Block
It is summer here in the UK and for some humans, it becomes uncomfortable to breathe. At this time hay fever sufferers are hit hard with symptoms such as - frequent sneezing, runny/blocked nose, watery eyes and cough - to mention a few, caused by high pollen count in the air. The pollen is so … Continue reading Even More Random Drivel
**Some more inane drivel, (made even worse by being stuck indoors on account of the Coronavirus lockdown), which like most of my posts isn't intended to make sense** In my last post, I said I would bore regale you with how I am managing to remain unplugged from social media & Grindr for lent and under … Continue reading More Random Drivel
**This is just some inane drivel which like most of my posts isn't intended to make sense** I have given up all social media including Twitter, Facebook, Grindr and Scruff for lent. I was motivated by the Pope’s message on Ash Wednesday in which he encouraged Catholics to give up internet trolling and insulting others … Continue reading Random Drivel
It’s a wintry Sunday afternoon. I am restless as a result of boredom. I scan my various social media feeds, looking for something to outrage interest me. The process compounds my boredom even more, until I reach back to the past and find something on YouTube. In the summer of 2018, Grindr launched a YouTube … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr – XIV – Kindr Edition
Last June I took a trip to Lagos to attend a family event. Hooking up on trips outside UK is something I love doing just as much as I love sampling the local cuisine. Because of the average Nigerian’s attitude towards homosexuality, during the trip I mostly reconnected with the food prepared the way they … Continue reading Sex In Lagos
Got into Lagos last week, switched on Scruff and a warning popped up. Warning unheeded and most days bored while stuck in traffic in sweltering heat in an Uber/Taxify taxi with air conditioning blowing hot air, I browsed Grindr (which by the way doesn't have a similar warning) and picked up a life few lessons along … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr – XIII – Lagos Edition
Some of you may have noticed the lack of updates on the blog since the beginning of the year. I have had to take some time off blogging due to a couple of life changing events recently, which have caused me to pause and do some deep soul-searching. As part of the introspection, I had to … Continue reading Press Statement
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