Crap I Get On Grindr – XIII – Lagos Edition

Got into Lagos last week, switched on Scruff and a warning popped up. Warning unheeded and most days bored while stuck in traffic in sweltering heat in an Uber/Taxify taxi with air conditioning blowing hot air, I browsed Grindr (which by the way doesn't have a similar warning) and picked up a life few lessons along … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr – XIII – Lagos Edition

Press Statement

Some of you may have noticed the lack of updates on the blog since the beginning of the year. I have had to take some time off blogging due to a couple of  life changing events recently, which have caused me to pause and do some deep soul-searching. As part of the introspection, I had to … Continue reading Press Statement

Crap I Get On Grindr – XII – Lost In Translation

So the other day someone hit me up on Grindr...... I did my due diligence to see if his profile checks out..... He didn't like Unsafe sex & drugs; Presumably likes rub downs; Not sure what's happening with Instagram and the last one....WTF?!!? He doesn't like Black Americans??? I always say to people who get … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr – XII – Lost In Translation

Blowing In The Wind

When I observe some behaviours  around me in my daily, I ponder why they take place.For example:  During rush hour on the London Underground, why is it twenty passengers get off the train, only five passengers can squeeze back on? Meanwhile when a beggar comes through the same train carriage passengers quickly make way for … Continue reading Blowing In The Wind

Crap I Get On Grindr – XI

I honestly can't remember the last time in the past 12 months a Grindr conversation in London, has converted into a shag for me. I am largely to blame for this. Increasingly I am finding Grindr to be an endless source of mirth (second only to the current progress of Brexit negotiations with the EU) rather … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr – XI

New York Gay Pride 2018

I was in New York when the gay pride took place last weekend. The shops in New York city were filled with pride merchandise and corporate offices and the streets were festooned with Rainbow colours. The theme this year was "Defiantly Different" and because of the current  political climate in America, it felt to me … Continue reading New York Gay Pride 2018

Upskirting

Upskirting is a term used to describe the act of taking a photograph up someone’s skirt without their permission.  In most reported cases women are the victims and no men -I guess Kilt wearing Scots -  have come forward to complain. The sexually invasive act was set to be made a criminal offence in the UK … Continue reading Upskirting

Crap I Get On Grindr X – Job Hunter

I have come across some profiles in recent times, that you would be forgiven for thinking that Grindr was a job app like LinkedIn rather than a hook up app. And the way I flip between apps on my iPad and being a certified simpleton, one of these days I think I just might respond … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr X – Job Hunter

Wild Thoughts

The hustle is real, so off to work I go. I do the 10 minute walk to the London Underground station. I have my headphones on. I am listening to music from my “recently played” playlist set on random selection mode. There are 175 songs. Means songs from Classical, Musicals, Pop, RnB, Gospel, Hip Hop, … Continue reading Wild Thoughts