Crap I Get On Grindr XIII

After years of suppressing  his sexuality,  a friend recently came out of the closet and told his close friends and family. The level of acceptance by all told is encouraging considering he is Nigerian. Buoyed by his new found freedom to be his authentic self  he hits Grindr, as you do and below happened Damned … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr XIII

Movie Review: God’s Own Country

The last gay themed movie I saw without muscular guys dancing with their tops off in a night club and then copping off home with one or more guys to have wild drug induced sex all weekend, was Moonlight. Unlike most gay films, God’s Own Country is not set in the concrete jungle of a … Continue reading Movie Review: God’s Own Country

My Blatino Oasis 2017 (NSFW)

I finally got my ass over to Palm Springs, California for the Blatino oasis gay event late last month. Something I had been thinking of doing for the last 6 years but couldn't, due to (in no particular order) work commitments, personal finances, weddings and a morbid fear of being used for target practice by a … Continue reading My Blatino Oasis 2017 (NSFW)

Sex In Dubai

A pop up message appeared on Scruff; warning about the illegality of same sex sexual intercourse in the UAE, The legal penalty subject (14 years in Prison) and that offenders were subject to Islamic laws (It wasn’t clear what that meant, but I reckon as a minimum would involve lashes and not of the S&M kind. I am thinking “12 years A slave”)

Crap I Get On Grindr XI

Not really sure what to say here. Would I be called a racist if I say "no" to his "Asian" question?  I don't agree with the term "Sexual racism" (please click here for my thoughts), but let's say I did for a minute, shouldn't  questions like "Are you into Asians?" be abhorrent to those who say … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr XI