Movie Review: Call Me By Your Name

I will be brief. Without giving anything away that is not already out there, this film is about Apricots. Yes, Apricots. It is set in summer somewhere in Northern Italy, in the early 80s when white folk threw their limbs all over the place in the name of dancing to music….It is now 2017 and … Continue reading Movie Review: Call Me By Your Name

Movie Review: God’s Own Country

The last gay themed movie I saw without muscular guys dancing with their tops off in a night club and then copping off home with one or more guys to have wild drug induced sex all weekend, was Moonlight. Unlike most gay films, God’s Own Country is not set in the concrete jungle of a … Continue reading Movie Review: God’s Own Country

My Blatino Oasis 2017 (NSFW)

I finally got my ass over to Palm Springs, California for the Blatino oasis gay event late last month. Something I had been thinking of doing for the last 6 years but couldn't, due to (in no particular order) work commitments, personal finances, weddings and a morbid fear of being used for target practice by a … Continue reading My Blatino Oasis 2017 (NSFW)

Hell or High Water – A Short Film

A few days ago, a friend sent me a YouTube link to this Nigerian gay-themed short film titled, Hell or High water  presented by The Initiative for Equal Rights (TIERs), a Nigeria based NGO. Though the film is only 30 minutes long and void of the usual Nigerian gay stereotype characterisation, it is quite incisive, emotional … Continue reading Hell or High Water – A Short Film

Sex In Dubai

A pop up message appeared on Scruff; warning about the illegality of same sex sexual intercourse in the UAE, The legal penalty subject (14 years in Prison) and that offenders were subject to Islamic laws (It wasn’t clear what that meant, but I reckon as a minimum would involve lashes and not of the S&M kind. I am thinking “12 years A slave”)

Crap I Get On Grindr XI

Not really sure what to say here. Would I be called a racist if I say "no" to his "Asian" question?  I don't agree with the term "Sexual racism" (please click here for my thoughts), but let's say I did for a minute, shouldn't  questions like "Are you into Asians?" be abhorrent to those who say … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr XI

Crap I Get On Grindr X – A Greek Tragedy

My last entry “Crap I Get On Grindr IX” (click here) took place last week,while on a short break on the Greek Island of  Mykonos, where someone (let’s name him Stalker)  tracked me down to my Hotel. The way I figure it, Stalker liked my profile on Grindr and messaged me a few times. When … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr X – A Greek Tragedy

Blue Dolphin – Massage with a Happy Ending

I like having massages, especially sports massage, which helps prevent injuries and alleviate Delay Onset of Muscular Soreness (DOMS) in certain parts of the body, which maybe caused by sports or regular gym workouts. I am also partial to a relaxing massage every now and then, especially on holiday. Examples include Ayurveda, Swedish, Hot stone, … Continue reading Blue Dolphin – Massage with a Happy Ending

Gym Vibing

Starbucks baristas are notorious for misspelling my name when taking my order and writing it on the paper cup. It comes out meaning nothing to me, but clearly meaning something to the barista taking the order in whatever language they speak. How many ways can you spell “Keredim”? Ask a Starbucks Barista. I have a friend who has the … Continue reading Gym Vibing