I honestly can't remember the last time in the past 12 months a Grindr conversation in London, has converted into a shag for me. I am largely to blame for this. Increasingly I am finding Grindr to be an endless source of mirth (second only to the current progress of Brexit negotiations with the EU) rather… Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr – XI
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Upskirting
Upskirting is a term used to describe the act of taking a photograph up someone’s skirt without their permission. In most reported cases women are the victims and no men -I guess Kilt wearing Scots - have come forward to complain. The sexually invasive act was set to be made a criminal offence in the UK… Continue reading Upskirting
Crap I Get On Grindr X – Job Hunter
I have come across some profiles in recent times, that you would be forgiven for thinking that Grindr was a job app like LinkedIn rather than a hook up app. And the way I flip between apps on my iPad and being a certified simpleton, one of these days I think I just might respond… Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr X – Job Hunter
Conversation With The Barber IV
Previous haircuts Conversation I, Conversation II, Conversation III It was mid-April. The London weather finally acted on the memo it received 3 weeks before and allowed the sun to raise the temperature to just above 200C. As is the norm, once there is any hint of sunshine, Londoners regardless of the actual temperature outside and their body… Continue reading Conversation With The Barber IV
Crap I Get On Grindr IX
Reading is fundamental😏 Tired lines....🙄 He asked. I kinda answered..🚶🏿 Every gay black man's dream. I couldn't possibly refuse....I packed a weekend bag💼🏃🏿 Finally agreed at £450. Please don't judge me....Food prices have gone up 30% last 2 years...😉
No Sex Please, We Are Facebook.
Early on Valentine’s Day after being on Mark Zuckerberg’s good side for a good stretch, his crew flipped on me. I was banned from using Facebook. What really piqued me about the ban and its timing this year was that I missed the mawkish valentine’s day messages, between grown men living together, appear on my… Continue reading No Sex Please, We Are Facebook.
Movie Review: Call Me By Your Name
I will be brief. Without giving anything away that is not already out there, this film is about Apricots. Yes, Apricots. It is set in summer somewhere in Northern Italy, in the early 80s when white folk threw their limbs all over the place in the name of dancing to music….It is now 2017 and… Continue reading Movie Review: Call Me By Your Name
Movie Review: God’s Own Country
The last gay themed movie I saw without muscular guys dancing with their tops off in a night club and then copping off home with one or more guys to have wild drug induced sex all weekend, was Moonlight. Unlike most gay films, God’s Own Country is not set in the concrete jungle of a… Continue reading Movie Review: God’s Own Country
My Blatino Oasis 2017 (NSFW)
I finally got my ass over to Palm Springs, California for the Blatino oasis gay event late last month. Something I had been thinking of doing for the last 6 years but couldn't, due to (in no particular order) work commitments, personal finances, weddings and a morbid fear of being used for target practice by a… Continue reading My Blatino Oasis 2017 (NSFW)
Hell or High Water – A Short Film
A few days ago, a friend sent me a YouTube link to this Nigerian gay-themed short film titled, Hell or High water presented by The Initiative for Equal Rights (TIERs), a Nigeria based NGO. Though the film is only 30 minutes long and void of the usual Nigerian gay stereotype characterisation, it is quite incisive, emotional… Continue reading Hell or High Water – A Short Film
Sagba Chronicles 