Comedy · Grindr · Malaga · Muscle · Sex

Sex In Malaga

It was April and I was in Malaga for medical reasons. You see, the UK might offer economic opportunities and basic social freedoms, like allowing same-sex individuals snog in public places without fear of reprisals, if doesn’t offer sunshine. As a result  I have to top up my  Vitamin D levels periodically and my doctor… Continue reading Sex In Malaga

Barcelona · Beach · Circuit · Drugs · Matinee · Sex · Travel

My Circuit Festival Barcelona 2015

Place: Barcelona, Spain Date: Aug 5 – Aug 16 Weather : Better than in the UK and that is all that matters. Event: Circuit festival Barcelona, organised by the Matinee group. Each August, Spain’s second city hosts Europe’s largest gay festival, attracting 71,000 visitors this year. The city is taken over by non-stop clubbing and… Continue reading My Circuit Festival Barcelona 2015

Coming Out · Nigeria · Sex · Social Commentary · Tolerance

Conversation With The Barber II

The last time I mentioned my barber was in January, it is now August. That doesn't mean that I have been running around looking like I am auditioning for a part in a Blaxploitation movie. Quite the opposite. I have been to see him and been having my hair cut, just that we haven’t had… Continue reading Conversation With The Barber II

Bottom · Grindr · Sauna · Sex · Travel

Sex In Prague

It is Sunday. I have been in Prague for two weeks with work. I am horny. I am an arse man.I make no apologies about that. I like them bubble, I like them muscular, I like them pert, I like them visible. When I see guys I like on the street, bus, train, clubs, bars,… Continue reading Sex In Prague

Comedy · Gay websites · Sex · Social Commentary · Travel · Uncategorized

A Case (And Maybe A Place) For Russell Tovey

Hey Russell, I see you had a spot of bother last week regarding your comment about effeminate (fem) gay men. Every fem and their Chihuahua gave their 140-character text opinion on Twitter and some wrote articles vilifying and blaming you and other straight-acting (Masc) guys, for everything wrong with the entire world. You apologised and… Continue reading A Case (And Maybe A Place) For Russell Tovey

Bottom · Coming Out · Gym · Muscle · Pride · Sex · Social Commentary

Conversation with the Barber

Went to have my hair cut on New Year’s Eve by my regular barber. His name is Emenike. Good looking, average height, well-groomed beard, with a lean physique you get from hard labour – he hardly has any fat on him. Naturally, I have checked out his butt and he has absolutely nothing to be… Continue reading Conversation with the Barber

Chemsex · Comedy · Sex · Social Commentary

Gay Foxes

Fox hunting was banned in the UK in 2005. The Government of the day in an attempt to compensate  for  centuries of cruelty meted out on foxes, set up a reparation fund for the foxes’ protection.   Part of these funds was earmarked for the relocation of the foxes. Armed with these funds and coupled… Continue reading Gay Foxes

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More Sex in the Gym Sauna

I had a very stressful day at work with a very difficult client and at the end of the day I came to the gym to workout the frustration and reduce stress levels. After my workout I went into the sauna with the intention of relaxing the tense muscles and hopefully melt away the stress.… Continue reading More Sex in the Gym Sauna

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Sobriety Badge

I got an e-mail from Adam4adam –the gay hook up website- regarding my profile. It would appear I haven’t logged on for 90 days and as a result my profile may be deleted. The e-mail then went on to advertise them as the “Number 1 gay dating website” and that they won some award in… Continue reading Sobriety Badge

Chemsex · Drugs · Gay websites · Sex · Sobersex · Social Commentary

The Joys of Sober sex

Party and Play  (PnP) is a phenomenon of recreational drug users having sex with each other or a group. It can also be referred to as Chemsex.  In previous posts I have blamed Chemsex for inhibiting any decent online hook ups for me, as I have a zero – tolerance attitude to drugs. A bit… Continue reading The Joys of Sober sex