It was my birthday a few months ago, but I forgot to wish myself a Happy Birthday in the third person on social media, as people are wont to do these days. By the time I remembered it was in my opinion, too late to "thank people for their kind messages and wishes", even though… Continue reading The forgetful Daddy
Tag: London
London Pride @ 50
Saturday July 2nd, 2022 marked the 50th Anniversary of the first Pride march ever held in London back in 1972. According to reports, over 1 million people came out to watch. Not knowing what the situation is with the epidemiology of Monkey pox and why it appears to only infect gay and bisexual men and… Continue reading London Pride @ 50
Sex Writer’s Block
I have writer’s block. I start writing something and either my mind goes blank, or I find some obscure movie to watch on Netflix, Amazon Prime or Disney plus. This is what happens when you base 95% of your blog content on your sexcapades and you don’t factor in the impact of a global pandemic.… Continue reading Sex Writer’s Block
Man In The Mirror
It has been a while. It has been a year. I am not sure why it has taken me so long to update the blog with a new post, but I think I will put down to the global COVID pandemic situation and the ensuing lockdowns. I think it has impacted me mentally more than… Continue reading Man In The Mirror
Coming Out – Impasse
Continued from Coming Out – Crossroads Although you going back to see your Dad would mean disrupting your plans to binge watch a Netflix series, you turn right. Carpe diem and all that. The conversation is going to happen at some point. Better to have it now that you feel recklessly confident than dwell on… Continue reading Coming Out – Impasse
Coming Out – Crossroads
It is a routine visit to see your parents. One you carry out once, sometimes twice a month. You spend two or three hours with them. You talk about everything but nothing. You help them fix anything that needs fixing around the house, but usually you help find a “missing” icon on the Ipad or… Continue reading Coming Out – Crossroads
London Gay Pride 2018
London Gay Pride took place last weekend and I went along with a friend to watch the parade. She was visiting from Nigeria and watching a gay pride event is on her bucket list. So I obliged her. Over 300 float and groups marched/danced/twirled/sashayed along the route and about 1 million people came to watch… Continue reading London Gay Pride 2018
Upskirting
Upskirting is a term used to describe the act of taking a photograph up someone’s skirt without their permission. In most reported cases women are the victims and no men -I guess Kilt wearing Scots - have come forward to complain. The sexually invasive act was set to be made a criminal offence in the UK… Continue reading Upskirting
Wild Thoughts
The hustle is real, so off to work I go. I do the 10 minute walk to the London Underground station. I have my headphones on. I am listening to music from my “recently played” playlist set on random selection mode. There are 175 songs. Means songs from Classical, Musicals, Pop, RnB, Gospel, Hip Hop,… Continue reading Wild Thoughts
Coming Out
“…Mum. I am gay”. How did we get here? You are gay. You have known for more than half your life. You struggled with it at first but you are at peace now. But you are also a Nigerian; culturally both don’t inherently go well together. You grew up in a moderately Christian home -… Continue reading Coming Out
Sagba Chronicles 