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Sex Writer’s Block

I have writer’s block.  I start writing something and either my mind goes blank, or I find some obscure movie to watch on Netflix, Amazon Prime or Disney plus. This is what happens when you base 95% of your blog content on your sexcapades and you don’t factor in the impact of a global pandemic. … Continue reading Sex Writer’s Block

Man In The Mirror

It has been a while. It has been a year. I am not sure why it has taken me so long to update the blog with a new post, but I think I will put down to the global COVID pandemic situation and the ensuing lockdowns. I think it has impacted me mentally more than … Continue reading Man In The Mirror

Random Drivel

**This is just some inane drivel which like most of my posts isn't intended to make sense** I have given up all social media including Twitter, Facebook, Grindr and Scruff for lent. I was motivated by the Pope’s message on Ash Wednesday in which he encouraged Catholics to give up internet trolling and insulting others … Continue reading Random Drivel

Crap I Get On Grindr – XIV – Kindr Edition

It’s a wintry Sunday afternoon. I am restless as a result of boredom. I scan my various social media feeds, looking for something to outrage interest me. The process compounds my boredom even more, until I reach back to the past and find something on YouTube. In the summer of 2018, Grindr launched a YouTube … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr – XIV – Kindr Edition

Crap I Get On Grindr – XIII – Lagos Edition

Got into Lagos last week, switched on Scruff and a warning popped up. Warning unheeded and most days bored while stuck in traffic in sweltering heat in an Uber/Taxify taxi with air conditioning blowing hot air, I browsed Grindr (which by the way doesn't have a similar warning) and picked up a life few lessons along … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr – XIII – Lagos Edition

Crap I Get On Grindr – XII – Lost In Translation

So the other day someone hit me up on Grindr...... I did my due diligence to see if his profile checks out..... He didn't like Unsafe sex & drugs; Presumably likes rub downs; Not sure what's happening with Instagram and the last one....WTF?!!? He doesn't like Black Americans??? I always say to people who get … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr – XII – Lost In Translation

Crap I Get On Grindr – XI

I honestly can't remember the last time in the past 12 months a Grindr conversation in London, has converted into a shag for me. I am largely to blame for this. Increasingly I am finding Grindr to be an endless source of mirth (second only to the current progress of Brexit negotiations with the EU) rather … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr – XI

Crap I Get On Grindr X – Job Hunter

I have come across some profiles in recent times, that you would be forgiven for thinking that Grindr was a job app like LinkedIn rather than a hook up app. And the way I flip between apps on my iPad and being a certified simpleton, one of these days I think I just might respond … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr X – Job Hunter

Crap I Get On Grindr XIII

After years of suppressing  his sexuality,  a friend recently came out of the closet and told his close friends and family. The level of acceptance by all told is encouraging considering he is Nigerian. Buoyed by his new found freedom to be his authentic self  he hits Grindr, as you do and below happened Damned … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr XIII