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A (Potentially) Scandalous Sexcapade

Lately, there has been a series of accusations of sexual harassment targeting male celebrities and individuals in influential corporate roles. Some of these cases proceed to trial, resulting in the conviction of the accused, while in certain instances, the accused are acquitted. Others never reach the courtroom due to a lack of evidence, and a… Continue reading A (Potentially) Scandalous Sexcapade

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Man In The Mirror

It has been a while. It has been a year. I am not sure why it has taken me so long to update the blog with a new post, but I think I will put down to the global COVID pandemic situation and the ensuing lockdowns. I think it has impacted me mentally more than… Continue reading Man In The Mirror

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Crap I Get On Grindr XI

Not really sure what to say here. Would I be called a racist if I say "no" to his "Asian" question?  I don't agree with the term "Sexual racism" (please click here for my thoughts), but let's say I did for a minute, shouldn't  questions like "Are you into Asians?" be abhorrent to those who say… Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr XI

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How Keredim Got His Groove Back…..Almost

He was dark skinned, handsome, had an athletic build and bountiful pert rump you just wanted to marinate in spices, grill and make it last for days.

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Mean Queens: The Sad, Sad Case of Internet Trolls

A few months ago, I blogged here that I couldn’t wait for the new dislike button on Facebook, so that I can start disliking comments and pictures thus effectively becoming a Facebook troll . Well that dream is out the proverbial window now that Facebook have decided against the button. Secretly I am glad they reached… Continue reading Mean Queens: The Sad, Sad Case of Internet Trolls

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To PrEP or Not to PrEP?

Last September I was on holiday in Los Angeles and as usual whenever I visit a new city, I went sight seeing during the day and cruised the local talent at night. I logged onto the gay hook up apps and websites to check out the local talent. Being LA - Land of Hollywood where… Continue reading To PrEP or Not to PrEP?

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Crap I Get On Grindr

I like good personal hygiene. I like my hookups showered and prepared before we meet up. I expressed my sentiments about douching here in a previous post. Unfortunately not all bottom guys I hookup with share the same sentiments and this continues to baffle me. Consequently, during chats on whatever hookup site or app I am on… Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr

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A Case (And Maybe A Place) For Russell Tovey

Hey Russell, I see you had a spot of bother last week regarding your comment about effeminate (fem) gay men. Every fem and their Chihuahua gave their 140-character text opinion on Twitter and some wrote articles vilifying and blaming you and other straight-acting (Masc) guys, for everything wrong with the entire world. You apologised and… Continue reading A Case (And Maybe A Place) For Russell Tovey

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My Transition From Top to Bottom Position

A friend of mine commented that all I tend to share are shag stories about me being the top and never the bottom. A fair comment which I have sought to address a few times. Like most tops out there, I am versatile when I am in a relationship. (Yes I have been in relationships!!).… Continue reading My Transition From Top to Bottom Position

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Sobriety Badge

I got an e-mail from Adam4adam –the gay hook up website- regarding my profile. It would appear I haven’t logged on for 90 days and as a result my profile may be deleted. The e-mail then went on to advertise them as the “Number 1 gay dating website” and that they won some award in… Continue reading Sobriety Badge