It was my birthday a few months ago, but I forgot to wish myself a Happy Birthday in the third person on social media, as people are wont to do these days. By the time I remembered it was in my opinion, too late to "thank people for their kind messages and wishes", even though… Continue reading The forgetful Daddy
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Man In The Mirror
It has been a while. It has been a year. I am not sure why it has taken me so long to update the blog with a new post, but I think I will put down to the global COVID pandemic situation and the ensuing lockdowns. I think it has impacted me mentally more than… Continue reading Man In The Mirror
Crap I Get On Grindr XI
Not really sure what to say here. Would I be called a racist if I say "no" to his "Asian" question? I don't agree with the term "Sexual racism" (please click here for my thoughts), but let's say I did for a minute, shouldn't questions like "Are you into Asians?" be abhorrent to those who say… Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr XI
How Keredim Got His Groove Back…..Almost
He was dark skinned, handsome, had an athletic build and bountiful pert rump you just wanted to marinate in spices, grill and make it last for days.
Mean Queens: The Sad, Sad Case of Internet Trolls
A few months ago, I blogged here that I couldn’t wait for the new dislike button on Facebook, so that I can start disliking comments and pictures thus effectively becoming a Facebook troll . Well that dream is out the proverbial window now that Facebook have decided against the button. Secretly I am glad they reached… Continue reading Mean Queens: The Sad, Sad Case of Internet Trolls
To PrEP or Not to PrEP?
Last September I was on holiday in Los Angeles and as usual whenever I visit a new city, I went sight seeing during the day and cruised the local talent at night. I logged onto the gay hook up apps and websites to check out the local talent. Being LA - Land of Hollywood where… Continue reading To PrEP or Not to PrEP?
Crap I Get On Grindr
I like good personal hygiene. I like my hookups showered and prepared before we meet up. I expressed my sentiments about douching here in a previous post. Unfortunately not all bottom guys I hookup with share the same sentiments and this continues to baffle me. Consequently, during chats on whatever hookup site or app I am on… Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr
My Transition From Top to Bottom Position
A friend of mine commented that all I tend to share are shag stories about me being the top and never the bottom. A fair comment which I have sought to address a few times. Like most tops out there, I am versatile when I am in a relationship. (Yes I have been in relationships!!).… Continue reading My Transition From Top to Bottom Position
I got an e-mail from Adam4adam –the gay hook up website- regarding my profile. It would appear I haven’t logged on for 90 days and as a result my profile may be deleted. The e-mail then went on to advertise them as the “Number 1 gay dating website” and that they won some award in… Continue reading Sobriety Badge
Catfish. A guy Nev, starts an online relationship with an attractive lady called Megan on Facebook. Feelings begin to develop between Nev and Megan. As a token of affection Megan sends Nev MP3 song covers, which Nev subsequently discovers are performances from YouTube. This is just one of the many distortions from Megan which Nev discovers that prompts him to seek… Continue reading Shag-fish