Crap I Get On Grindr XI

Not really sure what to say here. Would I be called a racist if I say "no" to his "Asian" question?  I don't agree with the term "Sexual racism" (please click here for my thoughts), but let's say I did for a minute, shouldn't  questions like "Are you into Asians?" be abhorrent to those who say … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr XI

How Keredim Got His Groove Back…..Almost

He was dark skinned, handsome, had an athletic build and bountiful pert rump you just wanted to marinate in spices, grill and make it last for days.

Mean Queens: The Sad, Sad Case of Internet Trolls

A few months ago, I blogged here that I couldn’t wait for the new dislike button on Facebook, so that I can start disliking comments and pictures thus effectively becoming a Facebook troll . Well that dream is out the proverbial window now that Facebook have decided against the button. Secretly I am glad they reached … Continue reading Mean Queens: The Sad, Sad Case of Internet Trolls

To PrEP or Not to PrEP?

Last September I was on holiday in Los Angeles and as usual whenever I visit a new city, I went sight seeing during the day and cruised the local talent at night. I logged onto the gay hook up apps and websites to check out the local talent. Being LA - Land of Hollywood where … Continue reading To PrEP or Not to PrEP?

Crap I Get On Grindr

I like good personal hygiene. I like my hookups showered and prepared before we meet up. I expressed my sentiments about douching here in a previous post. Unfortunately not all bottom guys I hookup with share the same sentiments and this continues to baffle me. Consequently, during chats on whatever hookup site or app I am on … Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr

My Transition From Top to Bottom Position

A friend of mine commented that all I tend to share are shag stories about me being the top and never the bottom. A fair comment which I have sought to address a few times. Like most tops out there, I am versatile when I am in a relationship. (Yes I have been in relationships!!). … Continue reading My Transition From Top to Bottom Position