Ah! So, I woke up the next morning and convinced myself that my unhinged idea was rational. It was the last day of my holiday — that bittersweet limbo between checkout and check-in at the airport and my flight wasn’t until late at night, so I had time. In fact, I had plenty of time. The kind of time… Continue reading Sex In Puglia – Part 3
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Sex In Puglia
In my last post, I casually mentioned—okay, teased —the fact that I accidentally found myself in a bukkake situation on a nudist beach in the south of Italy. Naturally, I couldn’t just drop that bombshell and not follow up. So, as promised, here’s the unfiltered, slightly implausible tale of how it all began… Puglia, also… Continue reading Sex In Puglia
A Piss taking Idiom
Igbo idioms enrich the language like gems, with one highlighting communal effort. During a village meeting, a member used the idiom about unity, prompting the author to reflect on gender implications and the origins of such expressions. This led to humorous musings that distracted them from meeting contributions, illustrating cultural complexities.
Sex in Lagos – The Revisit
The last 2 years I have had a very nonchalant attitude towards meeting anyone on Grindr and other hook up apps. However, as a hangover from the heady years when for me getting laid was like an Olympic sport and the body count equated to winning Olympic medals, I still find myself habitually going on them to… Continue reading Sex in Lagos – The Revisit
Sex In Lagos
Last June I took a trip to Lagos to attend a family event. Hooking up on trips outside UK is something I love doing just as much as I love sampling the local cuisine. Because of the average Nigerian’s attitude towards homosexuality, during the trip I mostly reconnected with the food prepared the way they… Continue reading Sex In Lagos
Crap I Get On Grindr – XIII – Lagos Edition
Got into Lagos last week, switched on Scruff and a warning popped up. Warning unheeded and most days bored while stuck in traffic in sweltering heat in an Uber/Taxify taxi with air conditioning blowing hot air, I browsed Grindr (which by the way doesn't have a similar warning) and picked up a life few lessons along… Continue reading Crap I Get On Grindr – XIII – Lagos Edition
London Gay Pride 2018
London Gay Pride took place last weekend and I went along with a friend to watch the parade. She was visiting from Nigeria and watching a gay pride event is on her bucket list. So I obliged her. Over 300 float and groups marched/danced/twirled/sashayed along the route and about 1 million people came to watch… Continue reading London Gay Pride 2018
Dear Nigerian Homophobe
As life-long members of the World Federation of Homophobes (WFH) – a federation which has been in existence for almost as long as homosexuals have been, I feel your opinions are not being respected enough by other members of the WFH during your daily knees up. Here are a few areas I think you could… Continue reading Dear Nigerian Homophobe
My Blatino Oasis 2017 (NSFW)
I finally got my ass over to Palm Springs, California for the Blatino oasis gay event late last month. Something I had been thinking of doing for the last 6 years but couldn't, due to (in no particular order) work commitments, personal finances, weddings and a morbid fear of being used for target practice by a… Continue reading My Blatino Oasis 2017 (NSFW)
Sex In Dubai
A pop up message appeared on Scruff; warning about the illegality of same sex sexual intercourse in the UAE, The legal penalty subject (14 years in Prison) and that offenders were subject to Islamic laws (It wasn’t clear what that meant, but I reckon as a minimum would involve lashes and not of the S&M kind. I am thinking “12 years A slave”)
Sagba Chronicles 