Coming Out

“…Mum. I am gay”. How did we get here? You are gay. You have known for more than half your life. You struggled with it at first but you are at peace now. But you are also a Nigerian; culturally both don’t inherently go well together. You grew up in a moderately Christian home - … Continue reading Coming Out

When Does an FB become a BF?

It has been about 3 weeks into lent and my self-imposed abstinence from sex has been going well.  I thought I would be having countless cold showers everyday to quell my urges but this has not been the case. Which is just as well considering the arctic temperature we have been having in England, despite … Continue reading When Does an FB become a BF?